Good Morning Whistler!

Hello Whistler.......we're back!  Love my morning walks into the village........

Very cold today. The snow is beautiful!

I've walked past this little guy several times. I feel his zen-ness rubbing off on me.


Here's to a fabulous time!

what’s one dumb thing that you used to believe in?

This is the first Burning Question I have answered from Danielle LaPorte. Here I go.............well, I used to believe that in order to be taken seriously you had to act serious. That may be true for a lot of people, but I now believe this to be false. I love to have a great time, laugh out loud, have light hearted conversations and be goofy sometimes. This doesn't mean that I am oblivious to life's complexities and that I don't cry and have the "life sucks" moments, but I do feel people take life way toooooo seriously lately. My first bit of advice for having a peaceful life.............be kind and DON'T watch the news!

Birthday Tea

A lovely way to spend a Sunday afternoon with friends and family.

I love to host a good party. The tea was fabulous but my lemonade with a "surprise" added was a chart topper.

I love it when a guest goes straight for dessert.

A little parting gift of Shea soap.

Happiness is Contagious

My latest recommended read is The Happiness Project by Gretchen Ruben. I read it last year and have been giving it to everyone I know. Her blog gives me a daily dose of happy! I had to copy her post about fun in the workplace. I could write paragraphs about why I think it is important to "lighten up" at work but Gretchen does it sooo much better than I ever could. Please read and share a laugh with someone today!

Quiz: How Fun Is Your Workplace? Your Home?

In The Levity Effect: Why it Pays to Lighten Up, Adrian Gostick and Scott Christopher make an interesting argument that “levity” is an extremely effective tool for helping people to work better. An atmosphere of light-heartedness, it turns out, helps people pay attention, eases tensions, and enhances a feeling of connection.
When I read this, I thought, “Well, levity would be tough for me, I’m not particularly funny, and I’m not particularly outgoing.”
But what the authors mean by “levity” is really a sense of lightness. It's less about being funny and more about being able to have fun and see the humorous side of everyday situations—especially difficult situations.
Ah, I thought, I’m trying! The Ninth of my Twelve Commandments is “Lighten up." When I posted sticky notes with key phrases all around my office and apartment, the one I put in the master bathroom read, “Tender and light-hearted.”
Gostick and Christopher include a quiz about workplace levity. Looking at it, I realized that most of my workplaces included these elements, which I’m sure contributed to the positive experience I had everywhere (except for the summer I worked as a waitress at Dos Hombres Mexican restaurant, and zoikes, I did not like that job).
For example, I’d assumed that the atmosphere around the Supreme Court would be serious, thoughtful, and grand. And it was. But in her chambers, Justice O’Connor incorporated several goofy aspects that made it a lot of fun, too. Each Halloween, she required her clerks to decorate elaborate pumpkins, and birthday celebrations were always a big deal, and she took the clerks on a yearly outing (we went fishing). And that sort of thing really did make a difference.
How does your workplace measure up? Take Gostick and Christopher’s quiz:

New employees are made to feel welcome
Meetings are positive and light
We have fun activities at least once a month
It’s common to hear people laughing around here
I can be myself at work
We have a lot of celebrations for special events
When brainstorming, we like to have fun
My boss is usually optimistic and smiling
Customers would call us fun to do business with
I have a friend at work who makes me laugh
We have a good time together

Does your workplace have "levity," according to this quiz? Do you think it matters?
This is a great list for home, too. For my next book, Happier at Home, I tried several resolutions that were meant to try to bring more levity into my apartment. For instance, I tried to under-react to problems, and it really did help.
How about you? Have you found that an atmosphere of levity and good humor makes a difference to your workplace or home? Have you found any good strategies to keep things fun and light?

Daily Inspiration

I LOVE Danielle LaPorte. Her messages in my inbox make me laugh, inspires creativity, and makes me think. She is an essential part of my morning routine, right along with my cup of coffee. Check it out www.daniellelaporte.com. My other BIG love is www.livestrong.com. I love a foundation that not only raises money for cancer, but also helps everyone involved.....the patients, their families, and anyone who wants to live a healthy life. Take a look at both their gadgets on my page.